WANTED DEAD OR oh well let's be serious, we all know how this is going to end.
James Edward Brady
Date of Birth: 15 OCT 1859
Place of Birth: South Butler Township, Schuylkill, PA
Date of Marriage: 10 NOV 1890
Place of Marriage: St. Joseph R. C. Church
Spouse: Maggie Bradley AKA Madge Bradley
Children: Thomas J. Brady
Date of Death: 4 Aug 1914
Place of Death: Gordon, Schuylkill, PA
Crime: Destruction of Evidence that he lived for 54 years
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Okay, not a bad Wanted Poster, but now let me tell you a little about my Great Grandfather. Like I told you in my last post, he was born in South Butler Township, this section of South Butler Twp would later be incorporated as Gordon Boro. He was born to Thomas A Brady and Bridget Convey, they were born in Swinford, County Mayo, Ireland (I found their birthplace listed on James' death certificate). He was born in 1859, which was two years before the start of the American Civil War. As far as I can tell, none of the Bradys served in either army.
James became a Fireman, on the railroad. I realize that that I just covered about 20 to 30 years in seven words, but I really don't know that much about him. Next thing that I know is that he married Madge (AKA Maggie, AKA Marcella) Bradley in St Joseph's Church in Ashland on 10 Nov 1890. They were married by Rev. Francis Coyle. I have a letter from St. Joseph's that says that Jacobum E. Brady and Margaretum Marcellae E Bradley were married on 10 Nov 1890, and the testes (witnesses, I hope) were Jacobus J Davis and Joanna Darrah. I am pretty sure the first and middle names are Latin.
Next event that I am aware of is the birth of my Grandfather, Thomas James Brady on 27 Aug 1891. Thomas was baptized on 30 Aug 1891 by Rev. C. F. Patterson (man they didn't waste any time getting him Baptized). The testes are listed as Joannis Davis and Lilly Bradley (Madge's sister?). This letter also cost me twenty bucks - this is getting expensive.
Then his wife dies. Here's where the facts get foggy. According the the obit that I put in the last post, Maggie was buried in St. Vincent de Paul parish cemetery on 16 Feb 1892. I can't find a headstone in the cemetery, and the church, after charging me the genealogy fee, can't find a record of her burial in the cemetery. The obit also says that she had been married less than year when she died. I must say at this point that my sister, Pat and my cousin Linda had told me that she died in childbirth. This would mean that she died sometime around the end of August 1891, or thereabouts. If that is true, she would have died before 10 Nov 1891 (her one year wedding anniversary. Did they keep her on ice (for lack of a better term) until 16 Feb 1892. Or is that fact an exaggerated fact (literary license). Death certificates were not required in PA in 1892.
Anyway, now is when James remains in Gordon, while the majority of the family moves to Scranton, Lackawanna County, PA. His son, Thomas, (my grandfather) lives with James' brother, William and his family in Scranton, then is listed living with his grandparents, Thomas and Bridget in Scranton in the 1900 census. I always wondered why James stayed in Gordon and did not go to Scranton. Was he inconsolable over the loss of his wife? Did he turn to the bottle and become an alcoholic (as his son did later in life). I don't know. What I do know is this: Thomas married my grandmother, Marguerite O'Dea on 18 Nov 1914, two months after his father died. There is also a story about James' death. I was told by my cousin Linda (I guess she heard more stories from her mother than we heard from our father, or else she just listened). But here is the story.
Legend has it that James was coming to Jersey City, NJ to see his son and his fiancee before their marriage. Supposedly he was going to give them money for their future. However, when he got to Penn Station in NYC, he was mugged for his money, and he was injured in the assault and went home and died. Now the death certificate says nothing about any injuries or assault. He died of cardiac failure. The death certificate is signed by Thomas McCutcheon, MD of Gordon PA. I always assumed that his brother, William F Brady, MD would have cared for him and sign the death certificate. Maybe there was a rift in the family, but over what? Or maybe McCutcheon was just a local doctor was was accessible and happened to be around when James died. Maybe William wasn't around when he died. Either way, the mugging story is looking less likely, but you never know.
More information is WANTED to answer the many questions that I have about James E Brady.
Stay tuned for a new Wanted Person in my next post.
Looking up the Family Kilt was created as a journal of my research into my family history. The purpose is to keep my siblings and cousins up to date on information that I have uncovered, and get them interested in helping me with my research. I am going to try to tell a story of who my ancestors were instead of relaying dates and other facts. If anyone has any additional info or corrections to my info, please tell me. I may even locate a long lost cousin or two along the way.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Thursday, January 26, 2012
The Bradys
I have been reminded that it is actually my father's family who adorns headstones with a single word. They would be Brady, O'Dea, Sterling, Reilly, Bradley, Convey, etc... (if there is a marker at all). My mother's family usually marks the graves with headstones that includes first names and dates which cover most of the residents. Why didn't dad's family do that? I don't know, maybe they didn't have the money, maybe they thought the money was better spent on the living, or maybe they just figured that the surname covered the residents well enough. Whatever their reasoning, I doubt that it was some devious plot to drive me crazy a hundred years later, but I could be wrong. Actually I don't even know where my great grandfather James E. Brady is buried, I have his death certificate and know that he died 4 Aug 1914 in Gordon Pa. The death certificates says that he died of myocardial degeneration, he was treated by Dr. Thomas McCutcheon of Gordon PA, and "Place of Burial or Removal" is listed as Ashland, PA. So I think I have it narrowed down to somewhere in Pennsylvania.
Let me tell you a little about James E Brady. He was born in South Butler Twp, Schuylkill County, PA on 15 Oct 1859 (this is actually 100 years to the day before my wife Katrina was born). He was the third child born to Thomas A Brady and Bridget Convey, he had two older brothers, John, born in 1854 and Michael born in 1858. William F. would follow on 6 Sep 1862, then Mary G. in 1866 and Bridget in 1869, and lastly (that I know of) Andrew in 1870. If you check the 1900 census, there is a column asking how many children by this mother? Bridget lists 11, the next question if how many are living and the answer is 6. Suffice it to say that James is from a large family.
On 10 Nov 1890, he marries Madge Bradley, who was born in Schuylkill County, PA 15 Nov 1867, and James is employed as a fireman (I think on the railroad). They live in Gordon and Madge gives birth to their only child (my grandfather) Thomas, on 27 Aug 1891. Unfortunately their time together was not to be a long one. Madge Bradley dies in February 1892, I don't know the exact date because death certificates were not required in Pa at the time of her death. My sister Pat and my cousin Linda told me that Madge died in childbirth and that family legend had it that James had our grandfather Thomas live with James' younger brother, William, who was a Doctor and married with children of his own in Scranton, PA. (William is a whole other story for another blog post).
I'll tell you how I found out about Madge's death. I was on the website for the Pottsville Free Public Library. Pottsville is a city in Schuylkill County, and is the county seat, so I went to that library to see what genealogical info that might have. While on the site, there was a section for Obits in the Pottsville Republican, between 1884 to 1894. So I went to that page, and found an index list that listed Brady, Mrs James 2-18-1892, (the date of the newspaper) 4-4(which means page 4, column 4). Now in order to view the obit, you have to go to the Pottsville Free Public Library and check the microfilm. Road Trip!!
This is the obit from the Pottsville Republican, it was on the page which had news from Minersville. So I went to Minersville, PA that day and walked through the cemetery at St. Vincent de Paul, and could not find her grave. I went into the church and asked for help in finding the grave, but they could not help. They suggested that I sent a letter with the info that I had and they would check the records in their archives for me. Oh yeah, there was a genealogy fee of $20.00. So I went to the car and wrote everything down and returned with a $20.00 bill. I later got a letter saying that they could not find her in their records. So I got no additional information and no refund. Man these Bradys are hard to find, even when you find where they are buried, you still can't find them.
While writing this post, I have been inspired to create a most wanted list. Being a retired Police Detective, I naturally think of wanted posters (but I have no mugshot to put on the poster). So stay tuned for my Most Wanted Ancestor List.
Let me tell you a little about James E Brady. He was born in South Butler Twp, Schuylkill County, PA on 15 Oct 1859 (this is actually 100 years to the day before my wife Katrina was born). He was the third child born to Thomas A Brady and Bridget Convey, he had two older brothers, John, born in 1854 and Michael born in 1858. William F. would follow on 6 Sep 1862, then Mary G. in 1866 and Bridget in 1869, and lastly (that I know of) Andrew in 1870. If you check the 1900 census, there is a column asking how many children by this mother? Bridget lists 11, the next question if how many are living and the answer is 6. Suffice it to say that James is from a large family.
On 10 Nov 1890, he marries Madge Bradley, who was born in Schuylkill County, PA 15 Nov 1867, and James is employed as a fireman (I think on the railroad). They live in Gordon and Madge gives birth to their only child (my grandfather) Thomas, on 27 Aug 1891. Unfortunately their time together was not to be a long one. Madge Bradley dies in February 1892, I don't know the exact date because death certificates were not required in Pa at the time of her death. My sister Pat and my cousin Linda told me that Madge died in childbirth and that family legend had it that James had our grandfather Thomas live with James' younger brother, William, who was a Doctor and married with children of his own in Scranton, PA. (William is a whole other story for another blog post).
I'll tell you how I found out about Madge's death. I was on the website for the Pottsville Free Public Library. Pottsville is a city in Schuylkill County, and is the county seat, so I went to that library to see what genealogical info that might have. While on the site, there was a section for Obits in the Pottsville Republican, between 1884 to 1894. So I went to that page, and found an index list that listed Brady, Mrs James 2-18-1892, (the date of the newspaper) 4-4(which means page 4, column 4). Now in order to view the obit, you have to go to the Pottsville Free Public Library and check the microfilm. Road Trip!!
This is the obit from the Pottsville Republican, it was on the page which had news from Minersville. So I went to Minersville, PA that day and walked through the cemetery at St. Vincent de Paul, and could not find her grave. I went into the church and asked for help in finding the grave, but they could not help. They suggested that I sent a letter with the info that I had and they would check the records in their archives for me. Oh yeah, there was a genealogy fee of $20.00. So I went to the car and wrote everything down and returned with a $20.00 bill. I later got a letter saying that they could not find her in their records. So I got no additional information and no refund. Man these Bradys are hard to find, even when you find where they are buried, you still can't find them.
While writing this post, I have been inspired to create a most wanted list. Being a retired Police Detective, I naturally think of wanted posters (but I have no mugshot to put on the poster). So stay tuned for my Most Wanted Ancestor List.
Monday, January 9, 2012
Calvary Cemetery and Mt Olivet Cemetery in Queens, NY
On 1/5/2012, I decided to follow my own advice and check on cemetery records sooner than later. With that in mind, I called Calvary Cemetery in Woodside Queens, NY to check on the final resting place of my Great Great Grandmother Catherine McPartland McConville, who died in Brooklyn 1913. When I gave this information to the clerk that I spoke to, I was told that she needed an exact date of burial, which I did not have. So I told her about Catherine's son, Peter McConville who died July 30, 1948 and is buried in the same cemetery. She put me on hold for about five minutes and returned by giving me the location of his grave in the cemetery as: Section 4B, Range 30, Plot D, grave 6. When I asked about Catherine, who is buried in the same plot, I was told that I had to write to them requesting the information and enclosing a fee of $115.00 for the info. That was pretty much the end of the conversation.
The next day I called back, figuring that I would get info on when they had someone on the property to show me where the plot it, preferably on the weekend. I spoke with a very nice woman who asked for the plot number. When I gave it to her, she said that the plot is in Old Calvary or First Calvary, which is located in Long Island City, but the office is in Woodside. The she looked up the plot and told me that it was purchased by Catherine McConville in 1907. I casually said " then I guess that someone I am looking for who died in 1894 isn't gonna be there". That's when she said well actually she bought a different plot in 1894, and two people were buried there. They were removed to this plot in 1907. The old plot # Section 5, G6 was never resold, there may have been some type of problem with it. Then I told her I was looking for Maryann Sullivan buried in 1894, and she offered to look up one of the 1894 burials. She put me on hold, and came back a few minutes later saying "I don't think I solved your problem, but I may give you another one". The two people buried in 1894 were babies: James McConnell (McConville) who was just four days old and the mystery was Jenny Milford, who was just one day old, now for the strange part - they were both buried on 24 Sep 1894.
So I called my ace in the hole, Aunt Florence, and told her about the babies and asked if the Milford name sounded familiar She immediately said "Well, there was an Olive Milford who was a cousin, I think There were also cousins named Dawson." She also said that the Milford's had a son who was a fireman in New York, I don't know if it was FDNY or not. She said that if may have been her grandfather's sister who married a Milford.
So now I know four of the seven occupants of this plot: Catherine McConville, Peter McConville, Jr, James McConville and Jenny Milford, hopefully I can find info on the remaining three.
So last night I am on Ancestry.com checking on Catherine McConville, and I found three census records that I had never seen before. All of the records are from Brooklyn, NY and the 1870 census has Catherine and her husband, Peter, children Edward (my Great Grandfather) age 11, John age 9, Mary Emma age 5, and William age 9/12, with a notation that he was born in NY in Sep 1869. Everyone else was born in England, and I think William is actually Peter Jr, but I don't know why he is listed as Willilam. In 1880, Catherine is widowed, Edward is a cooper, John is a cork cutter, Mary Emma is a book binder, and Peter (not William) is at school. There is also a boarder named Elijah Cash, who is a book binder. In 1900, John and Peter are living with Catherine. John and Peter are both foreman at the Cooper Works. The interesting part is the family listed right before Catherine and her sons. They are the Milfords: Robert, his wife Mary, children Mary, Elizabeth and Robert. I wonder if this could be the parents of Jenny Milford.
Today I called Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Maspeth, Long Island to check on the final resting place of Mary Emma McConville, who was buried in 1924. The cemetery had no record of her. Then I called back and told the lady that I think Mary Emma married and her last name could be Milford. That did it. Lot 4161, Section F is the location of the Milford family burial plot. Grave 1 is occupied by William and Elizabeth Dawson Grave 2 contains Mary Emma Barth and Frederick Barth. Grave 3 Robert J and Mary E Milford, and Grave 4 Olive Shields (Milford ?) and Elaine Shields. I think I hit the jackpot, and it hasn't cost me yet.
One last thing before I stop. I was checking some census records and I found one from 1910 for Catherine McPartland McConville and while looking at it, I can see the questions about children. It asks how many children born to this woman and how many are now living. Catherine had 11 children and four of them were living. I called my daughter Chrissy, who was the only one home at the time, because I had to tell someone about this amazing fact. Chrissy came in the room and when I started to tell her, she says to me "Daddy, I was calling you,and you didn't hear me. I'm alive and you're paying more attention to a dead person than you are to me." I have to work on that slight defect.
The next day I called back, figuring that I would get info on when they had someone on the property to show me where the plot it, preferably on the weekend. I spoke with a very nice woman who asked for the plot number. When I gave it to her, she said that the plot is in Old Calvary or First Calvary, which is located in Long Island City, but the office is in Woodside. The she looked up the plot and told me that it was purchased by Catherine McConville in 1907. I casually said " then I guess that someone I am looking for who died in 1894 isn't gonna be there". That's when she said well actually she bought a different plot in 1894, and two people were buried there. They were removed to this plot in 1907. The old plot # Section 5, G6 was never resold, there may have been some type of problem with it. Then I told her I was looking for Maryann Sullivan buried in 1894, and she offered to look up one of the 1894 burials. She put me on hold, and came back a few minutes later saying "I don't think I solved your problem, but I may give you another one". The two people buried in 1894 were babies: James McConnell (McConville) who was just four days old and the mystery was Jenny Milford, who was just one day old, now for the strange part - they were both buried on 24 Sep 1894.
So I called my ace in the hole, Aunt Florence, and told her about the babies and asked if the Milford name sounded familiar She immediately said "Well, there was an Olive Milford who was a cousin, I think There were also cousins named Dawson." She also said that the Milford's had a son who was a fireman in New York, I don't know if it was FDNY or not. She said that if may have been her grandfather's sister who married a Milford.
So now I know four of the seven occupants of this plot: Catherine McConville, Peter McConville, Jr, James McConville and Jenny Milford, hopefully I can find info on the remaining three.
So last night I am on Ancestry.com checking on Catherine McConville, and I found three census records that I had never seen before. All of the records are from Brooklyn, NY and the 1870 census has Catherine and her husband, Peter, children Edward (my Great Grandfather) age 11, John age 9, Mary Emma age 5, and William age 9/12, with a notation that he was born in NY in Sep 1869. Everyone else was born in England, and I think William is actually Peter Jr, but I don't know why he is listed as Willilam. In 1880, Catherine is widowed, Edward is a cooper, John is a cork cutter, Mary Emma is a book binder, and Peter (not William) is at school. There is also a boarder named Elijah Cash, who is a book binder. In 1900, John and Peter are living with Catherine. John and Peter are both foreman at the Cooper Works. The interesting part is the family listed right before Catherine and her sons. They are the Milfords: Robert, his wife Mary, children Mary, Elizabeth and Robert. I wonder if this could be the parents of Jenny Milford.
Today I called Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Maspeth, Long Island to check on the final resting place of Mary Emma McConville, who was buried in 1924. The cemetery had no record of her. Then I called back and told the lady that I think Mary Emma married and her last name could be Milford. That did it. Lot 4161, Section F is the location of the Milford family burial plot. Grave 1 is occupied by William and Elizabeth Dawson Grave 2 contains Mary Emma Barth and Frederick Barth. Grave 3 Robert J and Mary E Milford, and Grave 4 Olive Shields (Milford ?) and Elaine Shields. I think I hit the jackpot, and it hasn't cost me yet.
One last thing before I stop. I was checking some census records and I found one from 1910 for Catherine McPartland McConville and while looking at it, I can see the questions about children. It asks how many children born to this woman and how many are now living. Catherine had 11 children and four of them were living. I called my daughter Chrissy, who was the only one home at the time, because I had to tell someone about this amazing fact. Chrissy came in the room and when I started to tell her, she says to me "Daddy, I was calling you,and you didn't hear me. I'm alive and you're paying more attention to a dead person than you are to me." I have to work on that slight defect.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Happy New Year
Last time I wrote, I was talking about cemeteries and the information that they may contain, not necessarily on the headstone in my case, but sometimes. I was complaining about the fact that all of the headstones that I usually hunt down are emblazoned with one word epitaphs, either "BRADY", or "O'DEA", or "STERLING", etc... Well, that is not entirely true. My best find was the grave of my Great Great Grandfather James O'Dea in St. John's Cemetery in Susquehanna, PA.
James O'Dea is the father of my Great Grandfather Michael O'Dea and his sister, Mary (O'Dea) Sterling, as well as other children. They lived in Sanford, Broome County, NY, which is located just across the Susquehanna River from - Yes you guessed it - Susquehanna PA.
At the time, I was trying to find information on my O'Dea family in Sanford, so I called Town Hall and spoke with a very nice lady, whose name escapes me, and I asked her if there was any information at Town Hall about my ancestors James and Honorah O'Dea. She asked me to hold on while she checked. Then she came back to the phone and says to me "I'm sorry, but the only thing I have here is their death certificates." I was shocked - I never expected that answer. She said that Honorah died 31 Mar 1900, and that James died 24 Jun 1920. James living until 1920 astonished me, cause I was figuring that he was born somewhere around 1830, which would mean that he lived until he was about 90.
So I sent the required fee, and received two death certificates in the mail. The first was for Honorah, and listed her date of birth as unknown (however, where it says age, the listing is very specific by stating 67 yrs. 10 mos. and 4 days ) born in Ireland, born to Peter McGuan and Mary McGuan, and died 31 Mar 1900 from apoplexy softening of the brain (which I think means that she died of a stroke). It also indicates that she is buried in Susquehanna PA. The question I have is this: If they can tell me her age right down to the day, how come they do not know her date of birth? Go figure.
The second death certificate was for James P. O'Dea born 29 Aug 1862 to James O'Dea and Honorah McGuan, and died 24 Jun 1920 in Sanford. His occupation is listed as farmer, and cause of death was arterial sclerosis (Cerebral Hemmorage). He is also buried in Susquehanna PA. So this James P. O'Dea is not my Great Great Grandfather, he is actually the son of my Great Great Grandparents James and Honorah O'Dea.
Then I called Susquehanna PA and asked Town Hall about cemeteries and if there was a way to determine which cemetery they may be buried in. I was told to call the Susquehanna Historical Society because they have a computer database of most burials in the cemeteries of Susquehanna. I contacted them and inquired about their database. Once again the checkbook had to be consulted for a genealogy fee, and $10.00 later I received a copy of the O'Deas in their database. The list said that they were buried in Laurel Hill Cemetery in Susquehanna. (Man, that is a long word to have to keep spelling out). My next step, which is my Standard Operating Procedure in all leads that send me to PA, was to call my sister Teesh in Scranton and ask her when a good time to visit her would be. I received her standard answer "anytime you want". Teesh and her husband Gary have an open door policy, and are always willing to have me (and my wife, five children and 120 lb. golden retreiver) stay with them. God love them. Genealogy trips are usually solo. (At the insistence of my wife, five children, and 120 lb. golden retriever.)
So in early October 2011, I drove to Scranton and dragged my sister Teesh (it is short for Patricia, and would take another blog to explain) north on 81 to Susquehanna PA and Sanford NY. When we get to Susquehanna, we began asking where Laurel Hill Cemetery was located (nothing like preparing for your trip) and everyone we spoke with said there was a cemetery near Laurel Hill Rd, but it was not named Laurel Hill, it was St. John's and was maintained by - wow, you're getting good at this - St. John's Church. There were also other small cemeteries in the area, but we decided to concentrate on St. John's. We drove to St. John's cemetery and started walking through the rows of headstones, looking for a small stone, probably worn by acid rain to the point of being illegible, and found nothing. We looked for a good hour and a half, and this is not a huge cemetery like Holy Name in Jersey City or Holy Sepulcher in East Orange. I was near the point of surrender and actually wondering if we had the right cemetery, when Teesh found a foot stone with an O'Dea name on it (I'm not sure if we are related or not, but it was on the list from the historical society and listed as being in Laurel Hill) So my energy was renewed when I realized that we were in the right cemetery, and I decided to press on. Within a half hour I found what we were looking for, but it was not what I had been looking for. Instead of a worn out headstone that read "O'DEA" in letters that I could barely read, I stood staring at a twelve foot high monument with a lot of information.
No wonder I didn't see it, I was looking down for a smaller stone the whole time. In case you can't read it, the stone tells when and where he was born and died, and that he is buried with his first wife, Catherine, and his second wife, Honorah. I had no idea that he was married twice. When I checked that date of Catherine's death, it coincides pretty much with the birth of my Great Grandfather Michael's brother Daniel. So once again I will guess that she died from complications of childbirth, but remember I have been wrong before.
Before I go, I have one more thing to say. On Sunday January 1 2012, I was speaking with a friend who is very interested in tracing her family tree. She is also from Jersey City, NJ and has relatives buried in Holy Name Cemetery. She told me that she took a ride to Jersey City with her husband and they went to Holy Name to check her family plot. She found that there are more people buried there than she thought. Some of whom she is not familiar with. So she went to the office to ask for further information on the residents of the plot and dates of burial. She was told that they could not release any information without payment of a genealogy fee of $25.00 for the first person inquired about, and $15.00 for each additional person. Apparently a large company has taken over management of the cemetery and has put these fees in place.
So, be warned. Get your cemetery information from your ancestors' burial places before this practice catches on.
James O'Dea is the father of my Great Grandfather Michael O'Dea and his sister, Mary (O'Dea) Sterling, as well as other children. They lived in Sanford, Broome County, NY, which is located just across the Susquehanna River from - Yes you guessed it - Susquehanna PA.
At the time, I was trying to find information on my O'Dea family in Sanford, so I called Town Hall and spoke with a very nice lady, whose name escapes me, and I asked her if there was any information at Town Hall about my ancestors James and Honorah O'Dea. She asked me to hold on while she checked. Then she came back to the phone and says to me "I'm sorry, but the only thing I have here is their death certificates." I was shocked - I never expected that answer. She said that Honorah died 31 Mar 1900, and that James died 24 Jun 1920. James living until 1920 astonished me, cause I was figuring that he was born somewhere around 1830, which would mean that he lived until he was about 90.
So I sent the required fee, and received two death certificates in the mail. The first was for Honorah, and listed her date of birth as unknown (however, where it says age, the listing is very specific by stating 67 yrs. 10 mos. and 4 days ) born in Ireland, born to Peter McGuan and Mary McGuan, and died 31 Mar 1900 from apoplexy softening of the brain (which I think means that she died of a stroke). It also indicates that she is buried in Susquehanna PA. The question I have is this: If they can tell me her age right down to the day, how come they do not know her date of birth? Go figure.
The second death certificate was for James P. O'Dea born 29 Aug 1862 to James O'Dea and Honorah McGuan, and died 24 Jun 1920 in Sanford. His occupation is listed as farmer, and cause of death was arterial sclerosis (Cerebral Hemmorage). He is also buried in Susquehanna PA. So this James P. O'Dea is not my Great Great Grandfather, he is actually the son of my Great Great Grandparents James and Honorah O'Dea.
Then I called Susquehanna PA and asked Town Hall about cemeteries and if there was a way to determine which cemetery they may be buried in. I was told to call the Susquehanna Historical Society because they have a computer database of most burials in the cemeteries of Susquehanna. I contacted them and inquired about their database. Once again the checkbook had to be consulted for a genealogy fee, and $10.00 later I received a copy of the O'Deas in their database. The list said that they were buried in Laurel Hill Cemetery in Susquehanna. (Man, that is a long word to have to keep spelling out). My next step, which is my Standard Operating Procedure in all leads that send me to PA, was to call my sister Teesh in Scranton and ask her when a good time to visit her would be. I received her standard answer "anytime you want". Teesh and her husband Gary have an open door policy, and are always willing to have me (and my wife, five children and 120 lb. golden retreiver) stay with them. God love them. Genealogy trips are usually solo. (At the insistence of my wife, five children, and 120 lb. golden retriever.)
So in early October 2011, I drove to Scranton and dragged my sister Teesh (it is short for Patricia, and would take another blog to explain) north on 81 to Susquehanna PA and Sanford NY. When we get to Susquehanna, we began asking where Laurel Hill Cemetery was located (nothing like preparing for your trip) and everyone we spoke with said there was a cemetery near Laurel Hill Rd, but it was not named Laurel Hill, it was St. John's and was maintained by - wow, you're getting good at this - St. John's Church. There were also other small cemeteries in the area, but we decided to concentrate on St. John's. We drove to St. John's cemetery and started walking through the rows of headstones, looking for a small stone, probably worn by acid rain to the point of being illegible, and found nothing. We looked for a good hour and a half, and this is not a huge cemetery like Holy Name in Jersey City or Holy Sepulcher in East Orange. I was near the point of surrender and actually wondering if we had the right cemetery, when Teesh found a foot stone with an O'Dea name on it (I'm not sure if we are related or not, but it was on the list from the historical society and listed as being in Laurel Hill) So my energy was renewed when I realized that we were in the right cemetery, and I decided to press on. Within a half hour I found what we were looking for, but it was not what I had been looking for. Instead of a worn out headstone that read "O'DEA" in letters that I could barely read, I stood staring at a twelve foot high monument with a lot of information.
No wonder I didn't see it, I was looking down for a smaller stone the whole time. In case you can't read it, the stone tells when and where he was born and died, and that he is buried with his first wife, Catherine, and his second wife, Honorah. I had no idea that he was married twice. When I checked that date of Catherine's death, it coincides pretty much with the birth of my Great Grandfather Michael's brother Daniel. So once again I will guess that she died from complications of childbirth, but remember I have been wrong before.
Before I go, I have one more thing to say. On Sunday January 1 2012, I was speaking with a friend who is very interested in tracing her family tree. She is also from Jersey City, NJ and has relatives buried in Holy Name Cemetery. She told me that she took a ride to Jersey City with her husband and they went to Holy Name to check her family plot. She found that there are more people buried there than she thought. Some of whom she is not familiar with. So she went to the office to ask for further information on the residents of the plot and dates of burial. She was told that they could not release any information without payment of a genealogy fee of $25.00 for the first person inquired about, and $15.00 for each additional person. Apparently a large company has taken over management of the cemetery and has put these fees in place.
So, be warned. Get your cemetery information from your ancestors' burial places before this practice catches on.
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